10 signs that your soul mate is near

Premonition that your soul mate is near – There is a saying that you will not find your soul mate if you don’t look for it. It seems that this saying is indeed true. Who can find their soul mate when they only focus on themselves and don’t want to do anything to find a soul mate?

However, sometimes we can find a handful of people who are looking for a soul mate here and there. He has tried his luck in various places, dated many times, and even used dating applications. In some situations, his efforts will bring results.

However, there are times when a person’s efforts do not seem to bring any results. Grameds may have seen other people, such as your friends or relatives, who have done the things above, but have not been able to find the right match according to their wishes.

The story above might be a little scary for Grameds who haven’t tried to find a partner at all. You might be thinking, what if you will forever try to find your soul mate, but still can’t find it? Will you end up living alone until the end of your life?

Table of Contents

• The premonition that your soul mate is near
  • Have made peace with yourself
  • Start finding your life purpose
  • Slowly forgetting your ex
  • Often dream of Deja Vu
  • Feeling the Love Around Us
  • Meet people with the same frequency
  • Ever imagined the right figure
  • Not Afraid to Take Decisions
  • Follow Directions from Gutches
  • Trust in the Almighty
• Signs He’s Not Your Soulmate
  • Never Make Contact First
  • His attitude likes to change
  • Not Having Initiative in Anything
  • Often cancel plans just like that
  • Don’t feel jealous of other people
  • He Just Disappeared
• Closing
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The premonition that your soul mate is near

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However, this can be said to be quite rare. If Grameds has tried to find a partner well and optimally, one day he will definitely meet a suitable partner. This may take a while, but you have to keep trusting the process and trust in God.

It could be that, after waiting for so long, you finally have a feeling that your soul mate is near. Moreover, what is called a hunch is not necessarily true. However, there are times when human premonitions can match reality, so possibilities like this cannot be ignored.

In this article, we will find out together what are the premonitions that indicate that your soul mate is near. It’s possible that one of the Grameds has felt some of the premonitions below, indicating that your soul mate could be close.

However, what is clear is that the hope of this article is that it can encourage Grameds to keep trying as best and as optimally as possible in finding a soul mate, and not to stop when they experience failure. Always remain confident and confident, one day you will be closer to your soul mate.

1. Have made peace with yourself

This first hunch can indeed be interpreted in various ways by each individual. However, the essence of it will always be the same, namely that Grameds has found peace in your life and no longer has problems with yourself.

Someone who feels at peace within themselves will usually show their true figure and personality. In the case of finding a soul mate, this indicates that what this person shows is true, so that he can find a soul mate according to the criteria without covering up anything about his personality.

2. Start finding your life purpose

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Continuation of the previous point, people who are at peace with themselves, slowly come to know their own purpose in life. Because he knows himself better, this person also understands what is suitable for him in the future, whether in terms of work, education or soul mate.

The last point is quite crucial, considering that together with their soul mate, they will build a family and household. Understanding what is good and what is not for themselves can prevent them from finding a partner outside their criteria. This should bring their soul mate closer to themselves.

3. Slowly forgetting your ex

Forgetting your ex can be said to be a form of peace with yourself. And in the case of looking for a soul mate, this is very important to do in order to avoid potential negative events that could occur if you remember your ex too often.

Forgetting an ex is a sign of someone’s maturity, where they show that they are ready to let go of the past and look to the future. With this, you are actively getting closer to your soul mate in the future.

4. Often dream of Deja Vu

Deja vu is an event where someone has experienced something very similar to their dream. This deja vu dream can have various interpretations. However, one of the most popular interpretations is evidence that one’s soul mate is getting closer.

Even though it’s not necessarily true, quite a lot of people who experience deja vu interpret their dreams as a big change in their lives. One of them is by getting closer to your soul mate in your life. This could motivate them to keep trying as hard as possible to meet this figure.

5. Feeling the Love Around Us

Love and affection never leave us. Whether it is love from parents towards us as children or affection from friends towards us, everything is always around us. However, there are times when we don’t feel this way after experiencing a series of negative events, such as difficulty finding a partner, for example.

Our unawareness of the love around us will certainly close down the possibility of finding a soul mate in life. How can we feel that there is a soul mate near us if we are not aware of the love and affection that other people give us?

6. Meet people with the same frequency

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People on the same frequency here do not have to be your soul mate. These people could be co-workers, new friends, or old friends returning to your life. These people can indicate that Grameds is in the right environment and direction in life.

If you are sensitive to your surroundings, the presence of these people could bring you closer to your soul mate. Grameds may have known beforehand that people with the same frequency could be a suitable match for you.

7. Ever imagined the right figure

Imagining someone to be your soul mate has probably happened to you several times. However, if any of you have ever really imagined someone to be the right person for you, it probably doesn’t happen often.

If Grameds has ever imagined someone, be it a close friend, an old friend, or even someone you have never met before, this could be an indication of your ideal figure, and perhaps a sign that your soul mate is closer than before.

8. Not Afraid to Take Decisions

Every decision Grameds makes in your life will bring you a certain impact. Whether it is on work, family, and in this case, a partner, this impact can be felt big. As mentioned above, choosing a mate is important because you will build a household with them.

For this reason, choosing a mate must be done precisely and with full calculation. However, if someone feels that this other person is a suitable and suitable mate for him, it is not impossible for you to choose him without thinking twice.

9. Follow Directions from Gutches

Following a hunch can be like turning a coin. On the one hand, you may get what you want, or at least the end result meets your needs. However, it is not uncommon for this hunch that you believe to actually lead you to failure.

This is a continuation of the previous point, a person can without hesitation follow his gut feeling if he feels that his soul mate is close to him. Even though there is the possibility of failure, this person is confident that his choice will not lead him down the path of failure, because his soul mate is the right person for him.

10. Trust in the Almighty

This last point could be the most important point for anyone among Grameds who is trying to find a soul mate. Because, no matter how big and grand our plans are, of course they will not be able to match His plans. If God had not willed it, then this would not have happened.

So, the best solution to all of this is to try as hard as possible and put your trust in Him. God will certainly provide His servants according to their needs at that time. When the time comes, He will give the best reward to those who have tried their best.

Signs He’s Not Your Soulmate

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In an ideal world, of course we want what we want to be realized, whether in the near future or in the future. However, in reality we are often faced with situations where we need to face a series of failures before finally getting what we want.

This certainly also applies when someone is looking for a soul mate. It was mentioned above that God will not give something if the time has not come. Until that time comes, we may be given failure in our love life.

Maybe, this is a sign that he is not your soul mate. These signs are often quite clear to see and feel. However, because we find it difficult to let go and are too sure about something, we often ignore these signs and choose to keep trying to continue the relationship.

Below, there are at least six signs that could indicate that this person is not your soul mate. It would be good if Grameds started to step back slowly and look for other people who really have signs of being a soul mate.

1. Never Make Contact First

A good relationship is a relationship where both have the initiative to establish contact with each other. However, if only Grameds among you makes contact first, that is a sign that this person is not the right person for you.

At least, this person will try to occasionally contact you in the midst of his busy life. Even though it is short and concise, this kind of effort is what you really need from your soul mate. An inappropriate figure will not do such a thing and tends to be passive in making contact.

2. His attitude likes to change

Grameds may have met people whose attitudes were erratic. At one time, this person could have a pleasant, friendly and warm attitude. However, at other times, his nature turns cold, indifferent, or worse, tends to be rude.

There is a possibility that this person has a problem. If it’s true, of course we have to help as much as we can. However, if this person has the same attitude as other people but is different only in front of you, it could be that he is not the right person for Grameds.

3. Not Having Initiative in Anything

Apart from initiative in communicating, other initiatives, for example in planning meetings, managing finances and other things that couples usually do, are also important. Don’t let Grameds be the only one who is the planner in a relationship.

Again, this passivity could indicate that the person is not interested in Grameds, and may not be for you. Their efforts to plan something, no matter how small, is proof of that person’s affection for you.

4. Often cancel plans just like that

Has Grameds ever encountered someone who often cancels promises or plans even though they have been agreed upon for a long time? Anyone who cancels plans or promises cannot be justified. However, if they only do it once or twice, this can still be forgiven.

Different from people who have often done this. Apart from being annoying, we no longer know whether this person really has the intention to make plans with us. If this happens to someone you consider your soul mate, Grameds should rethink this one-way relationship.

5. Don’t feel jealous of other people

Those who are soul mates must have felt jealous of other people. As long as it doesn’t tend towards the negative to the point of becoming possessive and paranoid, this jealousy is fairly normal. This shows that the person really loves you and doesn’t want you to be taken by someone else.

In fact, it’s a bit strange when we see that our partner doesn’t feel jealous of other people. This seems to show that there is no sense of ownership within him. If so, Grameds can confirm whether you both belong to each other, or are you the only one who feels you belong?

6. He Just Disappeared

The last point can also be an important point for Grameds to find out whether he is the right person for you or not. In this case, there is no need to doubt that the person who just disappeared in front of you is not the right person for you.

Better known today as ghosting , this behavior is certainly not a commendable attitude for anyone who does it. It would be nice, if you no longer like someone, to explain well the reasons why this happened and to leave them well instead of just disappearing.

Closing

With this, the article ends which contains a discussion about the feeling that your soul mate is near and what things are signs that he or she is not your soul mate. Hopefully this article can be useful for Grameds who need it.

In closing, we would like to recommend several books that can be used as reading material for Grameds regarding romantic relationships. These recommended books are the book ” Fighting For Marriage: Fighting Cheating, Recovering Relationships “, the book ” Don’t Make Small Problems in Love Relationships into Big Problems “, and the book ” Speaking Attractively, Other People Are Attracted, Relationships Get Closer “.